Post by helby on Aug 27, 2010 12:25:15 GMT
Today is the day that I got my driving licence back from DVLA - minus the endorsement for a speed fine (2006), a change of address, a new passport size picture BUT most importantly for me it has me listed by my correct surname!
This is an age old story...I got divorced! I had already reverted back to my maiden name in 2008 but the old driving licence was the last remaining legal document that links me to my ex husband.
They say that there are some key stressful things that can happen in your lifetime - Death, Moving House, Changing Jobs and Divorce. In the last three and half years I have experienced all four (and some of the others more then once) but Divorce is pretty shitty!
My ex husband choose to ignore the part of our wedding vows that said "and forsaking all others, stay faithful only unto her"...It will always hurt that he choose to develop a relationship with another behind my back and break the tight band of trust I thought we had within our marriage.
BUT (and most importantly) I am now just so happy now! Being with my Andy (and Bear & Tia of course) is fun everyday! I trust him and we support each other in all we do. We devote time to eachother and share such complimentary senses of humour.
Today I celebrate that I love Andrew Moore and that I have my life and identity back...my past is my past and I can now stride confidently into my future.
(Now you can all go puke in your buckets! Curse me evermore for being soppy! But just wanted to share...)
This is an age old story...I got divorced! I had already reverted back to my maiden name in 2008 but the old driving licence was the last remaining legal document that links me to my ex husband.
They say that there are some key stressful things that can happen in your lifetime - Death, Moving House, Changing Jobs and Divorce. In the last three and half years I have experienced all four (and some of the others more then once) but Divorce is pretty shitty!
My ex husband choose to ignore the part of our wedding vows that said "and forsaking all others, stay faithful only unto her"...It will always hurt that he choose to develop a relationship with another behind my back and break the tight band of trust I thought we had within our marriage.
BUT (and most importantly) I am now just so happy now! Being with my Andy (and Bear & Tia of course) is fun everyday! I trust him and we support each other in all we do. We devote time to eachother and share such complimentary senses of humour.
Today I celebrate that I love Andrew Moore and that I have my life and identity back...my past is my past and I can now stride confidently into my future.
(Now you can all go puke in your buckets! Curse me evermore for being soppy! But just wanted to share...)